As was explained above, loves such as those of the people of neglect and those attached to this world, that are for the sake of the evil-commanding soul, bring many tribulations and much pain and suffering in this world. While the ease, pleasures and enjoyment they bring are little and few.
For example, compassion becomes a painful calamity on account of impotence. Love becomes a calamitous misfortune on account of separation. Pleasure becomes a poisoned cup due to its transience. And in the hereafter, because they were not for God Almighty’s sake, they will either be without benefit or will be torment. (If they were illicit.)
Question: How might love for the prophets and saints be without benefit?
The Answer: In the same way that the love of the Christians for Jesus (Upon whom be peace), and the heretics for ‘Ali (May God be pleased with him) remain without benefit. [^26] If such love is in the form that the Qur’an directs, for God Almighty’s sake and in the name of the All-Merciful One’s love, then it has favourable results both in this world and in the hereafter.
[^26]:See, Musnad, i, 160; al-Ḥākim, al-Mustadrak, iii, 132; al-Bukhārī, al-Tārīkh al-Kabīr, iii, 281.
Now, to return to our subject, the results in this world of your love for delicious foods and luscious fruits will be that they are a pain-free bounty and a pleasure that is the essence of gratitude.
Your love of your instinctual soul. The result will be pity it, to train it, and to prevent harmful desires. Then the soul will not ride you, it will not make you a prisoner of its desires, rather, you will ride it. You will drive your soul, not to whims and fancies, but to right-guidance.
Your love for your wife. Since it will be built on her being a mine of tenderness, a gift of compassion, and on her fineness of character, if you have sincere love and affection for her, she too will have earnest love and respect for you. As the two of you approach old age these sentiments will increase and you will pass your life happily. But if it is otherwise, if it is love of a pretty face and for the sake of the instinctual soul, then it will be quickly destroyed and so too will good relations.
Your love for your father and mother. Since it will be for God Almighty’s sake, it will be both worship and the older they grow the more your love and respect for them will increase. If you earnestly desire and pray, with the noblest of sentiments and manly zeal, that they will live far into old age, and even kiss their hands with sincere respect and say, “Let
